I was sitting in on a client’s team meeting the other day, and something interesting happened. It was a very efficient group, laser-focused on getting through the agenda so they could “do” things. The conversation moved fast as they reviewed the key initiatives for the quarter, when, with 5 minutes left in the hour, someone…
My client was in the midst of an unprecedented storm of projects and responsibilities. She felt overwhelmed by everything and was convinced that the only way to find peace was by mastering all this work with sheer force and effort. As I listened, I couldn’t help but hear the ghost of a younger version of…
Last night, discovered an interview with Mandy Patinkin on YouTube. The interviewer posed a question that honestly stopped me in my tracks: “What do you know now that you wish you’d known then?” His answer resonated so powerfully with me, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about it. Here’s a version of what he said…
The other day, my wife showed me Rembrandt’s painting of The Storm on the Sea of Galilee. It wasn’t just beautiful; it spoke to me deeply. What captivated me wasn’t just the oil and canvas, but the unmistakable soul of the artist pouring through every brushstroke. It reminded me that the true masterpiece isn’t always…
I was sitting on the edge of a lake last week, watching some swallows swoop down over the water, picking up tiny insects as they buzzed by. It was an incredible display. They are so fast, and so acrobatic. I sat on that rock for 40 minutes doing nothing but watching them. How did they…
Think about a leader you admire. Who stands out to you as someone you’d want to emulate? Take a moment, I’ll wait. Do you have someone in mind? For me, that person is often Martin Luther King, Jr. His courage and moral clarity undeniably changed the course of history. I’m particularly struck by the creativity…
I talk a lot about how to show up as your best self every day. When I’m living as my best self, I’m more patient and a better listener. I’m more open to new ideas and can find more creative solutions. I have more energy and I’m genuinely present with the people I’m with. This state of being, this presence,…
Over the last few weeks, the same conversation keeps coming up with the leaders I coach. They tell me how well their businesses are doing—record first-quarter sales, overflowing demand, and maxed-out teams. They’re even considering hiring more people. Then, without missing a beat, they say, “But I think we might have to lay some folks…
Walking into a meeting, my head is caught in a web of worries – we missed our sales target, I’m disappointed with the lead generation, and several projects are running behind. My irritation flares as the agenda items feel irrelevant to my immediate concerns, and soon, the meeting descends into unproductive conflict. On a different…
You’ve got too much to do and not enough time to do it in. As a result, you’re scanning your inbox, firing off decisions, jumping from one meeting to the next. It feels productive, like you’re getting things done. But at the end of the day, you’re spent—and somehow, your inbox has more emails than it did…