Self-esteem is like a difficult-to-cultivate flower. It requires frequent nurturing that occurs when you keep your word and follow through on your promises. Derrick Bell This year, I’ve been on a journey to become more impeccable with my word. When I commit to being somewhere, doing something for someone, or following up, I’m more rigorous…
There was a day you decided to start that business. On that day, you had no idea what you were getting yourself into. You just began, and when obstacles came, you learned how to get over or around them to keep moving forward. Since that day, you haven’t stopped. You have consistently taken steps toward…
Watching the Olympics makes me cry. I don’t just occasionally cry during some events, nor do I save the tears for the medal presentations (though that’s usually when I cry the hardest). Watching humans who have devoted their lives to achieving the highest performance in their sport makes me so emotional. Seeing a swimmer touch the…
As I was running errands this weekend, I kept passing these signs; Going out of business sale!EVERYTHING MUST GO.25% – 45% Discounts through August 8. At first, I felt bad for the owner of that business. 2024 has been a challenging year for many companies. I’m sure that someone had put their all into making this business…
Last week, we talked about how I attempt to gather all my “parts” before I enter into a high-stakes conversation, especially if there’s potential for hurt feelings or nuance that might be missed. I do that because I need my analytical mind, spidey-sense, bridge-builder people skills, and hard-nosed business skills; I need all of them…
I like to think of myself as being a coherent whole person, but that description isn’t fully accurate. I’ve got some parts. (I’m betting you have some too.) On the one hand, I’ve got a very analytical, rational, and logical side—that part of me that loved calculus and engineering, who turns everything into a puzzle…
“If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader.” ~ John Quincy Adams Reading this made me wonder, by Adams’ definition, how am I doing as a leader? Dream More Learn more Do more Become More There’s nothing more valuable to a company, or that…
You are responsible for your second thought and your first action. My son and I were having some Father-Son banter a few days ago, and he said something that felt like it crossed a line. It stung, and I didn’t like it. It was one of those quick back-and-forth things, and I didn’t catch my…
I got a call from one of our family’s medical providers this week. I hadn’t paid their bill, and they were assessing us a late charge and threatening to withhold services… I felt irresponsible, careless, foolish, and sloppy when I listened to that message. I could hear myself in my head, “You idiot. You know…
I’ve been thinking and reading about leadership lately. Specifically, I’m trying to more clearly articulate what I mean when I say, “Better humans make better leaders.” What does “better” mean in that sentence? Mature? Enlightened? Capable? These words have the same problem. What do they mean? How do you measure them? So, I’ve started to…